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"Once a year go someplace you've never been before!"

(Dalai Lama)


Not "Out of Africa" but "Out by Africa"!

"Do you want to publish my story?"
A client that I did see periodically in the recent years due to severe eating- and alcohol addiction is sitting healthy and happy in front of me.

After a traumatic childhood, incest never been acknowledged, she had multiple abusive relationships.
Her past continued disrupting her life, which reflected in weight changes of thirty kilos (!) by binge eating- and /or drinking and depressions.
Years ago, she married a man who at least did not hit her but emotionally abused her.
However, her Soul, her authentic Self, was still overfloaded by the negativity  around her, her unhealed past and her self-destructive behavior.

She did not have the courage to leave him because she thought she needed him.
She had the courage to have her own laptop and by her sister  her own bank account, on which she had saved a considerable amount of money from the household money over the years, which he knew nothing about.

Unexpectedly, the invitation came from an old girlfriend who already for years lived in South Africa to visit her and to make a roadtrip together.
It was March and her husband, an accountant, had a very busy period with his work.
Her husband had no trouble letting her go because, very important, her girlfriend wanted to pay for everything.

She had the journey and time of her life.
When she arrived at Schiphol four weeks later, she saw her husband standing behind the glass wall and realized:
"I'm going to leave him!"
When she told him that, his first reaction was:
"You will not get a penny from me."
Her answer:
"Tell it to my lawyer!"

Energy follows intention!


She told me:
"You have always said that at the right time everything falls into place and energy follows intention.
In addition to an urgency declaration, I have already found temporary housing and am I working by a temporary employment agency.
Why I want you to tell my story is because you're right that you should never give up and you have to get yourself ready for when the chance comes to break through the circle! "

She said about her eating and alcohol addiction:
"I've never realized that, in addition to the alcohol, sugar made me also feel so much less than my Self."


About the people who abused her in the past she said:
"You're right. Afterwards, they needed me more than I needed them. "



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