"Once a year go someplace you've never been
Not "Out of Africa" but "Out by Africa"!
"Do you want to publish my story?"
A client that I did see
periodically in the recent years due to severe eating- and
alcohol addiction is sitting healthy and happy in front of
After a traumatic childhood, incest never been
acknowledged, she had multiple abusive relationships.
past continued disrupting her life, which reflected in
weight changes of thirty kilos (!) by binge eating- and /or
drinking and depressions.
Years ago, she married a man
who at least did not hit her but emotionally abused her.
However, her Soul, her authentic Self, was still overfloaded
by the negativity around her, her unhealed past and
her self-destructive behavior.
She did not have the
courage to leave him because she thought she needed him.
She had the courage to have her own laptop and by her sister
her own bank account, on which she had saved a considerable
amount of money from the household money over the years,
which he knew nothing about.
invitation came from an old girlfriend who already for years
lived in South Africa to visit her and to make a roadtrip
It was March and her husband, an accountant,
had a very busy period with his work.
Her husband had no
trouble letting her go because, very important, her
girlfriend wanted to pay for everything.
She had the
journey and time of her life.
When she arrived at
Schiphol four weeks later, she saw her husband standing
behind the glass wall and realized:
"I'm going to leave
When she told him that, his first reaction was:
"You will not get a penny from me."
it to my lawyer!"
She told me:
"You have always said that at the right time
everything falls into place and energy follows intention.
In addition to an urgency declaration, I have already found
temporary housing and am I working by a temporary employment
Why I want you to tell my story is because you're
right that you should never give up and you have to get
yourself ready for when the chance comes to break through
the circle! "
She said about her eating and alcohol
"I've never realized that, in addition to the
alcohol, sugar made me also feel so much less than my Self."
About the people who
abused her in the past she said:
Afterwards, they needed me more than I needed them. "