It was his journey to come home to
While I had been successfully working hard on my career my wife hadn't
grow with me.
Our marriage was childless.
I overcompensated her with all the luxury you could imagine and
took her everywhere she wanted to go to.
However, she was extremely jealous and became increasingly aggressive
A year after the inevitable separation, I met a woman who gave me
the love that I had missed so much.
My ex-wife appeared to be revengeful.
Mutual friends and acquaintances were embarrassed by her lies about me.
I felt responsible for her acting out so I sought help.
During a consultation I was asked the following question:
"Did she at your wedding promise to you to make your life hell?"
I got the advice to write my ex-wife a letter that I didn't have to
The letter had three topics:
-That has happened.
-This is what it has done tome.
-This is how I want to go on in my own life.
The writing of that letter took me three emotional weeks. I decided not
to send the letter.
Afterwards much to my surprise I didn't hear anything from her.
Years later I heard that she was married and had children.
I decided to visit my physician because my second marriage remained
childless as well.
I was the cause which
my second wife couldn't handle. She wanted a divorce.
Again I wrote a letter that I didn't sent.
Finally I wanted to have a lot of time for myself and took a sabbatical
year to travel to other continents.
If I wanted a consultation it was possible by Skype.
To me it was like being far away but at the same time close to someone.
Through all of this I have become who I really am.
I've been very lucky in meeting a woman that I married.
We have adopted two children.
He asked me to come to Schiphol when he traveled back home which I
It was his journey to come home to his Self.